Being an ISTJ who loves an INFJ is like to a very , with your bare hands. You are the rock—, , . They are the wind—,, . It’s not that you don’t get it; it’s that you it until you’re by logic! Don’t worry, I’ve been there. The key isn’t to who you are, but to learn their . Let’s break this down the fluff.
How to INFJ needs as an ISTJ
You need to that their aren't "noise." They are data. For an ISTJ, are often to facts. But for an INFJ, are the facts. When they are upset, don’t try to fix the . Just . . Put down your phone. Look at them. Say,"I hear you." That’s it. No yet.
They crave deep, . Small talk them. Big talk fuels them. Ask them about their . Ask them what them. Show . If you treat their inner world with , they will feel safe with you. is for an INFJ.
Don’t the cues. INFJs are of non- . If they go quiet, don’t they are fine. They might be . Check in on them . A text like, " of you, how’s your heart doing?" works . It shows you care about their state, not just their .
How to with an INFJ when you are an ISTJ
Your style is . Short. . is . . . This . Stop to win with logic. You can’t logic your way into an INFJ’s heart. is your new . it.
When you , their first. Even if you think they are wrong, their are real to them. Say, "I see why you feel that way." Then share your view. This small shift trust. They will open up more they know you won’t them.
Also, give them space. INFJs need alone time to their . You might this as . It’s not. It’s . their . Don’t take it . Let them have their quiet hours. Come back when they are ready. is your here. Be the while they sail their ship.
How to INFJ and as an ISTJ
INFJs on and . They might make that seem to you. Trust them. Often, they sense you see. If they say feels "off," them. Your job is to the to help them act on those .
Help them their grand . INFJs have big ideas but with . You excel at . Team up! You the ; they the . This is . You them; they you. It’s a when you it.
Show for their depth. their . Tell them how much you their to see the human side of . They get for this. When you do, they light up. It their . It tells them, "I see you, and you ."
an INFJ as an ISTJ . It out of your zone. But it is worth it. They bring magic to your life. You bring to their mind. , you are . Start today. more. Fix less. Love .
